The GenGle Philosophy

Discover the core values and mission of GenGle, a supportive community for single parents. Learn how we foster connection, growth, and a positive future together.

Welcome to GenGle: A Community Built on Shared Experience

My name is Giuditta Pasotto, and I'm a single mom to two wonderful children. After my separation, I embarked on a journey of personal growth that allowed me to achieve many goals, both as a mother and as a woman. This path led me to several fulfilling projects: I'm currently writing a book, I have a daily morning segment on Virgin Radio, I won a regional competition for the best social project, I was appointed by MIUR as a speaker for 'knowledge goes digital,' and I've developed training courses that have achieved considerable success across Italy. As a mother, I committed to communicating constructively with my children, which completely transformed my relationship with them and my ex-partner.At a time when I felt truly lost, alone, vulnerable, and when it seemed like everyone around me was happily married, I conceived GenGle. That's precisely why our group's primary mission is to welcome everyone who needs a space for connection, a community of people with similar experiences, to understand that there's nothing wrong with us, and that a new beginning is just around the corner. Sometimes, all it takes is a little push to get the engine started – that's what GenGle aims to be!My children can now talk openly about their situation, we always have activities planned for the weekends, and I no longer fear doing things alone! GenGle is a group of potential new friends ready to welcome you, regardless of your past. Because at GenGle, we focus on the future. Everyone carries their own burdens, but at least we can carry them together!To make this possible, with over 25,000 members and an average of 30 new members joining daily, we need guidelines, clarity, and a clear understanding of this community's objectives.

Fostering Integration and Mutual Support

At GenGle, we strive to foster the integration of newcomers by involving them in events and ensuring they feel supported by 'veteran' members during their initial outings. We've all experienced our first GenGle event and know how challenging it can be to enter a new place with new people.We are a community, and any small way you can help is appreciated. If you see job openings, find out about available apartments, or have skills that could be useful, please let us know. The community is made up of people, and people are driven by willingness. If our collective will is to grow and collaborate, we will become a force!Propose events, ask for advice, or share your opinions – you and your contributions are the richness of this group.

Community Guidelines: Respect and Focus

At GenGle, posts directed at specific or implied individuals within the group are NOT welcome. We encourage resolving private issues privately, rather than seeking the group's support, as a large group may not be interested in gossip concerning only a few individuals. This is not 'Big Brother's confessional! Inappropriate posts will be removed.Making negative or non-constructive comments does not help this community grow. Nothing in the world improves by spreading gratuitous anger. If you have complaints or suggestions, please share them privately via email at <a href="mailto:info@gengle.it">info@gengle.it</a>. Posts intended to cause disruption or derail GenGle's mission will be removed without further notice.Before being 'single,' we are PARENTS. It is essential to maintain appropriate behavior on the site. We cannot post sexually suggestive 'funny cartoons' or pornographic material, use offensive language, or insult other members. Remember, differing opinions stem from each person's individual experience, and thus, however different from our own, they deserve respect.

Protecting Our Brand and Community Standards

GenGle is a registered trademark. Be cautious of similar groups or chats that are not affiliated with us or our principles. Any discussions held within those groups are not related to us, directly or indirectly.Event pricing is often based on the number of participants. Unfortunately, the 'JOIN' button is sometimes used casually. Organizers – single parents just like you – have had to cover costs due to no-shows who didn't even notify them. We are all parents and understand that children can get sick! However, notifying the organizer so they can adjust the per-person cost is a sign of DUE respect.

Leaving the Community and Administrator Decisions

If you decide to leave GenGle, there is NO need to post a farewell message, as it would be futile without the ability to read responses. If an administrator removes a user from GenGle, the reasons for removal will be provided ONLY to the individual concerned. We are not interested in fueling public chatter. However, be assured that no one will be removed due to personal dislike or disagreement with admin ideas – only seriously inappropriate behavior has led to the few exclusions made so far.GenGle is a non-profit organization. The site is and always will be free. Offering my time freely to help others was a conscious and challenging decision, especially considering that while I strive to be present and attentive, the user-to-administrator ratio is 8,475 to 2. I hope you understand if I can't always respond immediately.Blaming others for our problems or what happens to us can create a sense of greater control over our lives. However, recognizing that events are consequences of our own actions helps us teach our children the fundamental concept that they control their lives, and their future depends on their daily choices. Therefore, I ask you not to excuse laziness in using the site or proposing events with excuses like 'the site doesn't have an app, so it's inconvenient to view' or 'notifications are hidden, and I have to click to see them,' or 'I don't understand how to post an event, so I won't.' I just downloaded my son's online report card, and it was technically one of the most difficult things I've done this year. I'm sure each of you mustered all your technological resources to view your child's report card without online assistance!. Where there's a will, there's a way. Change is never easy; every change requires effort, but if the effort leads to results, isn't it worth it?WE decide how to participate to improve the world we live in. WE choose the contribution we make, and WE always choose whether or not to act. Sometimes, a smile or a kind word is enough. I've seen hugs alleviate years of sadness and held-back tears. But to offer that hug, that smile, or those comforting words, one needs to step out of their shell, engage, bring forth the positivity and proactivity within us, and share it with others.

Our Shared Goal: Building a Better Future Together

<h3>Question:</h3>Is your goal aligned with GenGle's vision?Are you here to be welcomed and to welcome others, to help and support those who, like you, have at least once felt different? Do you want to 'normalize' your situation in the eyes of your children, allowing them to connect with other children and teens who have similar experiences? Do you want to meet new people and engage in activities with or without your children? Do you want to connect with and support people seeking understanding and comfort? Do you understand that the past is past, and now we must work to build the best possible future?If you are lonely souls seeking companionship, I recommend Badoo, Meetic, or even Tinder. But GenGle is something else entirely! If, however, you feel aligned with GenGle's mission, you are most welcome. I assure you that you will find a big family ready to embrace you, but of course, you need to do your part too!For everything else that might not have been covered, I trust in each of your good judgment!Thank you.